May. 16th, 2025 12:39 am
lotesse: (Default)
[personal profile] lotesse


Got the call today: no chance for dad to live off vent. Little chance of survival at all. His wishes are clear & the decision was clear. We will wait for organ donation matches to reach the right timing and then turn off the machines. The docs say it will likely be seconds, after that. Likely tomorrow, maybe Sunday.

Everything very fictional at the moment.

Date: 2025-05-16 09:00 am (UTC)
oursin: Beatrix Potter's Mrs Tiggywinkle, wearing an apron, clasping her paws, and looking upwards (Mrs Tiggywinkle)
From: [personal profile] oursin
So sorry to hear that: sending sympathy to you and your family.

Date: 2025-05-16 09:23 am (UTC)
rmc28: Rachel in hockey gear on the frozen fen at Upware, near Cambridge (Default)
From: [personal profile] rmc28

My condolences and sympathies

Date: 2025-05-16 10:02 am (UTC)
giandujakiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] giandujakiss
I am so sorry/

Date: 2025-05-16 11:57 am (UTC)
princessofgeeks: Shane smiling, caption Canada's Shane Hollander (Default)
From: [personal profile] princessofgeeks
I am so sorry. Thinking of you all.

Date: 2025-05-16 12:55 pm (UTC)
ilyena_sylph: picture of Labyrinth!faerie with 'careful, i bite' as text (Default)
From: [personal profile] ilyena_sylph
oh my friend. All my sympathy.

Date: 2025-05-16 01:11 pm (UTC)
umadoshi: umadoshi kanji (umadoshi kanji)
From: [personal profile] umadoshi
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-16 01:17 pm (UTC)
senmut: an owl that is quite large sitting on a roof (Default)
From: [personal profile] senmut
Sending you all the love and support as someone who has faced that decision with a loved one.

Date: 2025-05-16 01:19 pm (UTC)
nocowardsoul: young lady in white and gentleman speaking in a hall (Default)
From: [personal profile] nocowardsoul
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-16 01:59 pm (UTC)
sixbeforelunch: waves on the beach, no text (sea shore)
From: [personal profile] sixbeforelunch
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-16 03:43 pm (UTC)
neotoma: Neotoma albigula, the white-throated woodrat! [default icon] (Default)
From: [personal profile] neotoma
I'm so sorry for you. Something similar happened with my mom last autumn, and even though the decision was clear, it hurts to have to make it.

Date: 2025-05-16 05:15 pm (UTC)
starlady: Raven on a MacBook (Default)
From: [personal profile] starlady
I'm so sorry to hear it. Thinking of you and your family.

Date: 2025-05-16 05:40 pm (UTC)
musesfool: jar of flower petals, spilling (but there is this)
From: [personal profile] musesfool
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-16 07:56 pm (UTC)
msilverstar: (Default)
From: [personal profile] msilverstar
My deepest sympathies. I've been remembering my dad lately.

Date: 2025-05-16 10:40 pm (UTC)
greghousesgf: (pic#17098462)
From: [personal profile] greghousesgf
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-16 10:57 pm (UTC)
aflatmirror: (Default)
From: [personal profile] aflatmirror
Sending compassion to you and your family

Date: 2025-05-17 02:32 am (UTC)
greensword: (Default)
From: [personal profile] greensword
i'm so sorry

Date: 2025-05-17 03:46 am (UTC)
coriana: (rosebud teacup)
From: [personal profile] coriana
Sending love, and sending love, and sending love.

Date: 2025-05-17 04:02 am (UTC)
rachelmanija: (Default)
From: [personal profile] rachelmanija
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-17 06:58 am (UTC)
springheel_jack: (Default)
From: [personal profile] springheel_jack
I'm very, very sorry. Please be compassionate with yourself.

Date: 2025-05-17 07:29 am (UTC)
vriddy: Two cups of coffee on a tray (friendship)
From: [personal profile] vriddy
I am so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-17 07:09 pm (UTC)
stultiloquentia: Campbells condensed primordial soup (Default)
From: [personal profile] stultiloquentia
I've been there. I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-18 12:13 am (UTC)
kaydeefalls: peggy on brooklyn bridge (peggy in brooklyn)
From: [personal profile] kaydeefalls
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2025-05-19 09:22 am (UTC)
adore: (hugs)
From: [personal profile] adore
Sending you love and support.

Date: 2025-05-20 12:18 pm (UTC)
starshipfox: (DS9 Kira)
From: [personal profile] starshipfox
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Profile

lotesse: (Default)
throbbing light machine

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Page generated Feb. 1st, 2026 11:46 pm
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios