Kinky het or non-sexist/heteronormative het is great and all, but is it queer? I don't entirely care myself, but just so you know, some gay and nonmonosexual people I know would take umbrage at straight people claiming the title, and in these things it's usually good policy to mind the opinion of the under-privileged minority (even if it's just some of them). And, you have to admit, the title is more commonly associated with people with same-sex attractions.
I share your inclination towards nonheteronormative het pairings, oh boy. I am basically NOT interested in a het ship unless it's either a relationship of equal power or the power dynamics favour the woman, and also straight gender role reversal play is hot. I don't read nearly as much as I write these days so I've never really worried about keywords for it before, though there's probably an indicative tag or two on AO3.
The thing for using queer het for this sort of thing is also that it would probably have to include other kinds of kinky het too, including male tops with female bottoms, which is the opposite of what we'd be looking for.
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Date: 2013-04-01 04:48 pm (UTC)I share your inclination towards nonheteronormative het pairings, oh boy. I am basically NOT interested in a het ship unless it's either a relationship of equal power or the power dynamics favour the woman, and also straight gender role reversal play is hot. I don't read nearly as much as I write these days so I've never really worried about keywords for it before, though there's probably an indicative tag or two on AO3.
The thing for using queer het for this sort of thing is also that it would probably have to include other kinds of kinky het too, including male tops with female bottoms, which is the opposite of what we'd be looking for.