loud acafen wha?

Oh for heaven's sake. Other people daring to care about their own oppressions - or, shocker, having compassion for someone else's - is not harshing anybody's squee. Or, I'm sorry, did I miss the part where people of color/genderqueers/younameit aren't parts of this community?

The only way for fandom to have a higher proportion of squee to fail, which I agree would be nice and shiny, is for people to stop failing so damn much!